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effort for the same. Because, in his state as a majzoob, which is divine bliss,
he does not at all feel the slap or the kick. He has gone beyond that
state of feeling.
The question of feeling, even after God-Realization, comes
only when the God-Realized being again comes down to the world of phenomena
with normal consciousness. There, he can use non-violence, pure and simple,
which is based on divine love, and try to persuade the aggressor – the one who
slapped or kicked – through infinite love. In his Beyond state, where all souls
are One, he is himself both the striker and the stricken, the aggressor and
the aggrieved.
It is either Unity – Oneness – or duality. There is no
stage in between.
Different yogas have different means; for example, for
bhakti yoga, it is love; for karma yoga, it is non-violence and so on. In karma
yoga, love for individuals is "non-violence of the brave," and love for the
masses is "non-violent violence." The Beloved in karma yoga is non-violence
pure and simple. Now to reach the Beloved aspect, you have to go through the
path of love.
Why is God called the Beloved? Because we reach
Him through love. When you reach Him through non-violence, you call Him infinite
non-violence. The dnyanis – wise ones – call Him "Infinite Chaitanya,"
or Infinite Consciousness. Those who follow raja yoga call him Prabhu –
the Maker and Creator of everything. Thus God is named after the path through
which one attains and realizes Him.
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| | If one is lustful, he has a tendency to fasten his lust
upon several persons of the opposite sex. The ideal of brahmacharya (celibacy)
does not allow even the touch of the person of the opposite sex. Now if the
Master, who is entirely free from lust, wants to help a strongly lustful person,
he knows that the aspirant is incapable of brahmacharya. Therefore, he allows
him to legally marry, but he asks him to limit his lust only to one woman. Then
gradually, as lust diminishes, he may be asked to give up all acts of lust,
even with his wedded wife, although he can maintain and continue the married
life. In this manner, lust is gradually eliminated and the goal of brahmacharya
(sexlessness) is finally obtained.
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